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If the memorial taught me anything, it was to look at Joe Paterno as not simply a great coach, philanthropist, or even human being. It taught me to look at him, and all other great people I aspire to be like, in relation to their families. For these men and women are more than only that to the families that helped make them who they are. To these families they are parents, children, siblings, and loved ones. They see sides of these people we never get to see, know secrets about these people we never know, and deal with these people at their absolute worsts. If anyone deserves to be cherished and applauded for Joe Paterno and all the good he has done, I truly believe the family's role in his accomplishments must be acknowledged. They say behind every great man lies an even greater woman, I believe that behind every great person lies an even greater family.
As we move forward from all these events, I am not naive enough to believe that things will be the same. We cannot forget about the tragedy that occurred here, and we must face the shame that accompanies it every day. There will never be another Joe Paterno, and I would have it no other way. The best we can do is remember the good times with a smile, make a vow to never allow anything like those heinous acts to happen again, and look forward to our future. And, in the words of Jay Paterno, I would like to tell Joe that, "You won. You did all that you can do, you've done enough. We all love you. You can go home now." Let's let Joe go home, the family grieve in peace, and Happy Valley return into the quiet, loving place that made it so special in the first place.